From Pain to Change! Why is it , that sometimes it takes a painful experience to create the change we need in our lives. Have a look at what Kurek Ashley has to say about it and we can discuss it further.

We often hear stories of people hitting “Rock Bottom” and then completely transforming their lives to be full of fun, happiness and adventure. But why do we need to hit rock bottom to really kick us into gear and make our own choices. I like to associate it to a saying I once heard ” What you resist persists and what you accept changes!” If you keep fighting something, it will always be in the forefront of your mind and you will constantly be thinking about ways to beat it. Therefore it will never go away and will always be a part of your life. However, should you accept the fact that this something has happened and allow it to pass through you then you can happily move on and get on with your life.

By hitting rock bottom, these people have given up the fight and accepted the situation. It’s usually very emotional, but then change can come as a natural progression. That’s why, if someone is an Alocoholic or Suffering from Depression or needs Anger Management, then the turning point in their recovery will be when they accept their “condition” and focus on what they want to be. From this point on, they will be able to evolve and their lives will never be the same again. It takes real Strength and Courage to recover from these situations, but the human spirit is built on our survival instinct. We all want to live an amazing life, but sometimes believe our defence mechanism is to stay quite, not stand out and follow the crowd. Forget that! Get out there and have some fun. This is the only life that you will have so make the most of it. Write out a list of 5 things you want to do this year and start to plan how you can do them. Be grateful for what you have and show appreciation to the people around you. Create your life how you want it to be, rather than reacting to the situations that are thrown at you. And most importantly, stand in your truth!

Yours truly,

Stuart Ginbey

www.wealthacademy.org.uk

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